Thursday, February 4, 2016

A Time for Every Purpose Under Heaven


I don't know what other floral designers are doing in January, but I seem to have a rhythm at this time of year....brides getting in touch to book their weddings, quiet evenings spent hunkered down with a book or some knitting (thank you brilliant BLIZZARD).

But inevitably, I start to long for FRESHNESS in the idea category, and the commanding desire to clean "house" overtakes me! Not the actual one of course, though I am sure someone really does like doing that! but rather the house of my mind. 

First, the old year must be put to rest, and the bookkeeping wrapped up. Though it can be a bit of a puzzle, it still gives me a great sense of accomplishment when it is all tidied up. Now 2015 can be put firmly behind me and I can take a deep dive into the world of flowers, and FAST!! 

Creating designs for weddings and events has begun, exploring new options for color and form, planning of workshops for the Spring season has started (stay tuned and be in touch if you are interested in attending or hosting one), and just a little bit of business development. 

It's all quite challenging, stretching, AND enjoyable!

Here's a for instance:

Next week, I'll be attending (and supplying the flowers for) an event in DC with a Wedding website called Borrowed & Blue--photos to come. borrowedandblue

I'm a little apprehensive to create for a jury of my peers, but hope to meet and learn from new friends. Every event is a chance to say yes, that's it! as well as a clear, NO!!! don't EVER do that again!

But, as can't be avoided in this life, some of our work as floral designers is done for the grief stricken, and sadly, I will be preparing flowers for a memorial service for a 22 year old young man who has, as they used to say in the olden days, "fallen asleep" after a long bout with cancer. Dona Nobis Pacem, et Lux perpetua luceat eis!

His mother shared that he was a sensitive young man, and together she and her son planned and planted a home perennial garden. I hope to arrange flowers that will remind her of that time. 

It is a solemn honor to participate in this passage, sharing beauty, to aide in remembering and consoling. Though pain filled, death reminds us to live life with a full and loving heart while we may!

Here's hoping your 2016 has begun with a sense of clear and hopeful passages ahead. Well wishes to all who will wed this year, as well as those who will weep. 
 
The wise King Solomon said it best: 

I commend joy, for man has nothing better under the sun but to eat and drink and be joyful, for this will go with him in his toil through the days of his life that God has given him under the sun.





Friday, January 8, 2016

The Photos Never Lie


The beautiful Sarah with her attendants--ASICO photos


One of my favorite moments as a designer happens every time I get that email from a bride saying "the photos are in!!" Months of planning, time spent creating, and that final delivery are all bound up with the hope that this small part of their day will be a compliment and a joyful addition to the beauty of the place and people about to make their vows.


Every designer knows that the photos won't lie!


So, it's often with relief as well as pleasure that I take the first look through the many many photos to see how it all turned out. 

Usually my first pass through is just a selfish search for photos that show the flowers off to their best advantage...like runway models in their designer fashions. 

But that second look gives me a chance to enjoy the couple themselves. Their hope and happiness is contageous!

All the angst about flowers fading, falling, breaking disappears as I see for myself that happy couple, and yes, that giant bouquet still intact!

Sarah and her husband Chris were SO much fun to work with, and the photos from their wedding just SING! They prove on their own what a privilege it is to get to do this kind of work. So I think I'll just let them speak for themselves, and wish Sarah and Chris a very long and happy life together!